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"I tell ladies, just sit down and strike up a conversation." Oprah.com: How to talk to a brick wall Turn off the text Social networking Web sites and text messages can be a great way to keep in touch with friends, but Harvey says it's not the best way to date. You've got to use that." Safety first You know you've got a keeper when your man wants to make sure you're always safe, Harvey says. "I told all the dive masters on the boat: 'If she does not come out of that water in 30 minutes, everybody in the water. She goes home." Oprah.com: How to read his body language From The Oprah Winfrey Show Subscribe to O, The Oprah Magazine for up to 75% off the newsstand price. "You have nothing if you're texting a guy in a relationship," he says. We can text it and push 'reply all.' I mean, since we're lying, we might as well lie to everybody." If you want the relationship to be more, take it face-to-face. Chivalry's not dead -- it's just not required anymore," he says. Every man wants to protect his woman, and Harvey says this instinct kicks in when his wife, Marjorie, scuba dives.
As an auto plant worker, Harvey says he had to wait 90 days to receive benefits -- and says the same probation period should apply to dating. They determined if I was easy to work with, if I got along well with others, if I showed up when I said I was going to show up, if I was worthy." Women, Harvey says, hold the greatest benefit of all -- the cookie -- so there's no reason to give it away until you know your man deserves it. "Look, you cannot run us off." So what if you don't want to wait 90 days? We created the term 'gold digger' so you won't ask us for nothing.
Men are fixers, not talkers, Harvey says, so it's better to get to the point.
"When you say, 'We need to talk,' we put up the barriers," he says. God has given you all this incredible thing called intuition. I'm not a good mother at all." Although Marjorie is a certified diver, Harvey isn't a swimmer. "So [he puts] on the snorkeling gear and when she goes down, I tell him, 'You swim over and just keep an eye on my wife.'" Harvey also has instructions for everyone else on the boat. "I don't care if nobody [else] on the boat goes home.
fix-it Harvey says four little words can strike fear and dread into any man: We need to talk.
"You just drove a nail in his forehead," Harvey says.