Dating fatter women
Whether we admit it or not, physical attraction plays a large role in paving the way for love.
We don’t like to look closely at this fact, especially inside the walls of the church where we hope to find less superficial dating criteria than one’s pant size, but the surplus of single, godly, intelligent plus-size women speaks to reality.
Sure, one of his 15 points is "some men think fat women are beautiful" but the other 14 are dedicated to tired stereotypes basically boiling down to Fattie Mc Fatterson is super into food and will do anything to please a man because she's desperate. "Your date is tough." Hogue says fat ladies are rough 'n tough because they have to take care of themselves because dudes only want to protect skinny chicks.
Well, I'd say he better be pretty tough, if only to survive all the punches to the gut he gets when he says loudly that he's only into "fit girls who take care of themselves." 14.
I am good at writing and making jokes and cleaning. I would love to pass my days maneuvering a minivan full of foster kids to soccer games and recitals and tutoring.
None of these things would be diminished because of my size, yet none of them seem to matter because of my size.
Part of this has to do with basic demographics of the church today: For men, it’s a buyer’s market.
That everything that makes me lovable cannot outweigh my weight.
Have you ever read something so bad, so hideously offensive, so inappropriate that you almost want to give it a slow clap just for sheer chutzpah?
You'd think it would be hard to offend all fat women, thin women and every man who's not a douchebag and yet Jim Hogue's recent article for The Richest, "15 Thoughts Every Guy Has When Dating a Bigger Woman," manages to do exactly that! In an attempt to be brutally honest, Hogue lays out all the reasons why a man (who presumably is not fat) would ever date a lady of size.
Rather, he thinks fat women never workout so they'll think anything you do at the gym is amazing and will follow you around like a puppy. But hey, that must mean that women dating fat men get a similar privilege, right? Turns out, larger dudes still expect their women to be perfectly slim-and-trim. Hogue says a guy will never have to be jealous of all the man-stares his large lady is getting because no one else will ever want her. actually makes me so mad I can't even think of an appropriately snarky comeback.
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