Dating or marrying a divorced man with kids

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I think it was awkward for my new BIL for a while, but he use to it. Would you rather the ex husband be a deadbeat and out of her life and she has to shoulder the load of the children alone? Right, you should prefer that the GF and her ex get along.You don't want to come into a relationship where there is drama with the ex.So bear in mind that your date’s ex-wife will be in the picture while you are dating him.They may need to speak often about their children and arrangements for care.Just want some feedback especially from others who may have been in similar situations and how you dealt with uncomfortable situations like that. She apologized for putting me in that situation but it will happen again. But I'm wondering if I'm not ready to deal w/ crap like this. I think three kids is a lot too, but you do what you feel you must.We worked it out but the whole thing leaves a little sour taste in my mouth. And do you think I was over reacting when I confronted GF about this. Would you rather the ex husband be a deadbeat and out of her life and she has to shoulder the load of the children alone? I don't think the situation is unmanageable, but her ex is always going to be in the background, at least.

It was a tough spot to be in for sure, but it will get better if you can just be patient! It was unfair of me and I immediatly apologized for acting like jerk. If this woman is everything your said and your "In Love" with her then I don't see you have any other choice. We have been dating for about a yr and I met her kids about 3 months ago. I've met her ex..seems nice/respectful and a good father. I got to meet her family this past weekend for the first time at her house (we don't live together). But I didn't want to create a scene or give anyone the wrong impression, so I grinned and beared it. When GF and I had some time alone, I told her how I felt and was somewhat angry for her putting me in that situation.

you'll basically be putting up with their crap for years and years until they go to college. go find yourself a nice 20-something year old with low miles and a ripe, non hollowed out uterus. It was unfair of me and I immediatly apologized for acting like jerk.

She apologized for putting me in that situation but it will happen again. But I'm wondering if I'm not ready to deal w/ crap like this. But, I dont think it is uncomfortable for some people and I dont think they realize how odd it seems for others.

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. It was unfair of me and I immediatly apologized for acting like jerk.

She apologized for putting me in that situation but it will happen again. But I'm wondering if I'm not ready to deal w/ crap like this. Maybe they family needed to warm up to you as well.

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