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Both, I imagine, are equally exhausting in their own ways.

But guys, I'm for real this time, I promise: I'm deleting all of my dating apps for 30 days as part of Bustle's App-less April challenge, and I'm not looking back. Unlike many who are joining this challenge with me, I'm not doing it with the intention of learning how to meet people offline, but instead with the intention of learning how to date in a healthier manner, and how to strengthen my relationship with before I seek out one with someone else."I suggest a break to my clients all the time," says Ravid Yosef, dating and relationship coach, tells Bustle.

Since made my first online dating profile ever in Feb. (That number is exact, too — somewhere around first date number 23, I began keeping a list because I'm a writer and this sort of stuff fascinates me.) I've had my heart broken a handful of times, I've learned that many men who say they're feminist are really just mansplainers in sheep's clothing, I've had some rom-com moments, and I've accidentally choked a date with a cucumber during pub trivia.

No experience has been the same, and for that, I feel pretty lucky; dating apps gave me a crash course in dating in NYC like no other.

But, still, I found myself fearful at the idea of being without dating apps.

When I say that dating has been tough for me, I don't just mean in the sense that consistence between men I date has been spotty at best, but also that I struggle with not blaming myself or things that I'm not so confident about in myself when things inevitably end with them.

But something about it just never quite clicked for me.

And with this challenge keeping me accountable, there's even more at stake if I at any point feel tempted to redownload my dating apps before the month is over.

I don't know what it's like to meet someone offline, and I feel that most of men I end up meeting on apps like Tinder, Bumble, and OKCupid are in a similar place to me in the sense that they don't know what they're truly looking for either.

There's something to be said about having date, and perhaps even love themselves in a healthier way — it's everything I've been telling my friends I wanted out of my dating life since I first hit "Get" on Tinder in the i Tunes app store two years ago.

(I'm nothing if not competitive.)So there you have it: Me, the perpetually single, serial casual dater, is taking a Tinder sabbatical.

There is a very specific, strategic, seven-word question that the world seems to have agreed is the politically correct way to approach the topic.

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